Sunday, August 22, 2010
看懂这些故事 你做人就很成功了
一个男人在他妻子洗完澡后准备进浴室洗澡。这时,门铃响了。
妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己冲到门口。
当她打开门时,邻居鲍勃站在那儿。
在她开口前,鲍勃说,“你如果把浴巾拿掉,我给你800美元。”
想了一会儿,这个女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鲍勃面前。几秒钟后,鲍勃递给她800美元然后离开了。
女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋里。
当她踏进浴室时,丈夫问她,“是谁呀?”
“是邻居鲍勃。”她回答。
“哦,”丈夫说,“他有没有提到还欠我800美元?”
故事寓意:
及时与同舟共济的股东分享重要信息,将会避免不必要的曝光。
第二课
一个销售员、一个办事员和他们的经理步行去午餐时发现了一盏古代油灯。
他们摩擦油灯,一个精灵跳了出来。
精灵说:“我能满足你们每人一个愿望。”
“我先!我先!”办事员说,“我想去巴哈马群岛,开着快艇,与世隔绝。”
倏!她飞走了。
“该我了!该我了!”销售员说,“我想去夏威夷,躺在沙滩上,有私人女按摩师,免费续杯的冰镇果汁朗姆酒,还有一生中的最爱。”
倏!他飞走了。
“OK, 该你了。”精灵对经理说。
经理回答:“我要那两个蠢货午饭后马上回来工作!”
故事寓意:
永远让你的老板开口先。
第三课
一只鹰坐在高高的树上休息,无所事事。
一只小兔子看见鹰并且问它,“我能象你一样坐着什么都不干吗?”
鹰回答:“行啊,为啥不行。”
于是,兔子坐在鹰下面的地上休息。突然,一只狐狸出现了,它扑到兔子身上把它吃掉了。
故事寓意:
要想坐着无所事事,你必须坐在非常、非常高的位置。
第四课
一只小鸟飞去南方过冬。天实在太冷了。它冻僵了,掉在一片田野上。
它躺在那儿时,一头母牛走过来在它身上拉了一堆屎。
冻僵的小鸟躺在粪堆里,开始感觉到了温暖。
牛粪确实使它暖和过来了。
它躺在温暖的牛粪中,异常高兴,并开始唱起歌来。
一只过路的猫听到鸟叫赶过来看个究竟。
顺着声音,它发现了牛粪下的小鸟,并迅速把它拖出来吃掉了。
故事寓意:
(1) 并不是每个在你身上拉屎的都是你的敌人。
(2) 并不是每个把你拖出粪堆的都是你的朋友。
(3) 当你深陷粪堆中的时候,最好闭上你的鸟嘴
(1)学会 沉默
有时候,你被人误解,你不想争辩,所以选择沉默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你,因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候,你被最爱的人误解,你难过 到不想争辩,也只有选择沉默。全世界都可以不懂你,但他应该懂,若他竟然不能懂,还有什么话可说?生命中往往有连舒伯特都无言以对的时刻,毕竟不是所有的 是非都能条列清楚,甚至可能根本没有真正的是与非。那么,不想说话,就不说吧,在多说无益的时候,也许沉默就是最好的解释。
(2)至少 平静
在你跌入人生谷底的时候,你身旁所有的人都告诉你:要坚强,而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的,但是快乐?在这种情形下,恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟,谁能在 跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴?但是至少可以做到平静。平静地看待这件事,平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静,没有快乐,也没有不快乐。
(3)学会弯腰 这会是我意外的收获
和别人发生意见上的纷歧,甚造成言语上的冲突,所以你闷闷不乐,因为你觉得都是别人恶意。别再耿耿于怀了,回家去擦地板吧。拎一块抹布,弯下腰,双膝 着地,把你面前这张地板的每个角落来回擦拭干净。然后重新省思自己在那场冲突,所说过的每一句话。现在,你发现自己其实也有不对的地方了,是不是?你渐渐 心平气和了,是不是?有时候你必须学习弯腰,因为这个动作可以让你谦卑。劳动身体的同时,你也擦亮了自己的心绪。而且,你还拥有了一张光洁的地板呢。这是 你的第二个收获。
(4)不要想 如果 当初
你说,人生是一条有无限多岔口的长路,永远在不停地做选择。如果只是选择吃炒面或炒饭,影响似乎不大,但选择读什么科系、做什么工作、结婚或不结婚、 要不要有孩子,每一个选择都影响深远,而不同的选择也必定造就完全不一样的人生。你又说,生命中不可承受之情,就在于人生没有重来的机会啊。如果当初如何 如何,现在就不会怎样怎样...这种充满怅然的喃喃自语,还是别再多说了吧。每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏,只要把人生看成是自己。独一无二的创 作,就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。
(5)努力吧 不管成功与否 至少曾经美丽
漫步林间,你看见一株藤蔓附着树干,柔软与坚实相互交缠,你感动于这静美的一幕。让幸福与归属就此驻足吧。你想。不知未来会有怎样一番风雨摧折?也许 藤将断、树会倒,也许天会荒,地将老。你又想。那么,请时光停格在此刻吧。停格即是永恒。永恒里若有这静美的一刻,未来可能遭遇的种种劫难,便已得到了安 慰与报偿。
(6)保持单纯
因为思虑过多,所以你常常把你的人生复杂化了。明明是活在现在,你却总是念念不忘着过去,又忧心忡忡着未来;坚持携带着过去、未来与现在同行,你的人 生当然只有一片拖泥带水。而单纯是一种恩宠状态。单纯地以皮肤感受天气的变化,单纯地以鼻腔品尝雨后的青草香,单纯地以眼睛统摄远山近景如一幅画。单纯地 活在当下。而当下其实无所谓是非真假。既然没有是非,就不必思虑;没有真假,就无须念念不忘又忧心忡忡。无是非真假,不就像在做梦一样了吗?是呀,就单纯 地把你的人生当成梦境去执行吧。
(7)偶尔'俗气'...
吃多了健康食品,偶尔你也想啃一啃鸭舌头和盐酥鸡。看多了大师名剧,偶尔你也想瞄一瞄耳光摔不完眼泪掉不完的连续剧。听多了古典音乐,偶尔你也想唱一 唱爱他一百年又恨他一万年的流行歌曲。你知道健康食品对健胃整肠有意义,大师名剧对培养气质有意义,古典音乐对提升性灵有意义,可是,偶尔你其实并不想让 自己时时刻刻活得那么有意。人生不需要把自己绑得那么紧。偶尔的小小放纵,是道德的。灵气充满或许接近大人,但偶尔的俗气会更平易近人。
(8)控制情绪 别浪费了~
今天的你,是不开心的你,因为有人在言语间刺伤了你。你不喜欢吵架,所以你离开;可是你只是离开了那,却没有离开被那人伤害的情境,因此你愈想愈生 气。愈有气,你就愈没有力气去理会别的事情,许多更该用心去做去想去处理的事件,就在你漫天漫地的心烦意乱之中,被轻忽被漠视被省略了。因为,你只是一心 一意地在生气。在情绪上做文章,这是对自己的浪费,而且是很坏的浪费。毕竟,生气也是要花力气的,而且生气一定伤元气。所以,聪明如你,别让情绪控制了 你,当你又要生气之前,不妨轻声地提醒自己一句:“别浪费了。”
(9)抓住最好的时机 绝不错过
你曾经买了一件很喜欢的衣裳却舍不得穿,郑重地供奉在衣柜里;许久之后,当你再看见它的时候,却发现它已经过时了。所以,你就这样与它错过了。你也曾 经买了一块漂亮的蛋糕却舍不得吃,郑重地供奉在冰箱里;许久之后,当你再看见它的时候,却发现它已经过期了。所以,你也这样与它错过了。没有在最喜欢的时 候上身的衣裳,没有在最可口的时候品尝的蛋糕,就像没有在最想做的时候去做的事情,都是遗憾。生命也有保存期限,想做的事该趁早去做。如果你只是把你的心 愿郑重地供奉在心里,却未曾去实行,那么唯一的结果,就是与它错过,一如那件过时的衣裳,一如那块过期的蛋糕。
(10)偶尔的出离轨道
某次你搭火车打算到A地去,中途却忽然临时起意在B地下了车。也许是别致的地名吸引了你,也许是偶然一瞥的风景触动了你,总之,你就这样改变了本来预 定的行程,然后经历了一场充满惊奇的意外旅行。A地是你原先的目标,B地却让你体会了小小的冒险。回忆起来,你说,那是一次令你难忘的出轨经验。生命中的 许多时候不也如此?心无旁骛地奔赴唯一的目的,不过是履行了原本的行程而已;离开预设的轨道,你才有机会发现其他的风景。
(11)悄悄 悄悄地 回归平静..
曾经有一段时间,你心情低落,甚至懒得拉开窗帘,看着窗外的阳光。因此你当然也忘了去看看,窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的玛格丽特。如此不知过了多 久,总算有一天,你度过了心情的低潮,同时也想起了你的玛格丽特。天啊,可怜的花,她还活着吗?你战战兢兢地拉开窗帘,却见她迎风招摇,花颜可掬。原来在 过去的这段日子里,你虽然忘了喂她喝水,老天却没忘了以雨露眷顾她呢。许多事物悄悄地在你的视线之外进行,而且悄悄地安排好了它们自己。天生万物,天养万 物,一切其实无须担心......你只要做的就是做好自己,不留任何遗憾...足矣。
关于爱情:
不要认为后面还有更好的,因为现在拥有的就是最好的。不要认为还年轻可以晚些结婚,爱情是不等年龄的。不要因为距离太远而放弃,爱情可以和你一起坐火车 的。不要因为对方不富裕而放弃,只要不是无能的人,勤劳可以让你们富裕的。不要因为父母反对而放弃,你会发现因为这个原因而反放弃的爱情,将是你一生的悔 恨。其实对于爱情,越单纯越幸福。一生只谈一次恋爱是最好的,经历的太多了,会麻木;分离多了,会习惯;换恋人多了,会比较;到最后,你不会再相信爱情; 你会自暴自弃;你会行尸走肉;你会与你不爱的人结婚,就这样过一辈子。
关于爱情:
也许爱情是一部忧伤的童话,惟其遥远与真实。放弃一个爱你的人并不痛苦,放弃一个你爱的人那才痛苦。若是有缘时间空间都不是距离,若是无缘总是相聚也无法 合意;凡事不必太在意,更不需去强求,就让一切随缘。逃避不一定躲得过;面对不一定最难过;孤独不一定不快乐;得到不一定长久;失去不一定不再拥有。爱是 一种享受,即使痛苦也会觉得幸福;爱是一种体会,即使心碎也会觉得甜蜜;爱是一种经历,即使破碎也会觉得美丽;不要因为寂寞而错爱,不要因为错爱而寂寞一 生。
关于伴侣:
伴侣不是结婚时发誓非你不娶或非你不嫁的那个人,而是发现你身上有许多缺点仍然选择你的那个人;伴侣不是生活中你爱吃黄瓜ta也爱吃黄瓜的那个人,而是你 吃蛋清ta吃蛋黄的那个人;伴侣不是天黑了和你一起手挽手走进饭店的那个人,而是守在门口巴望你回来共进晚餐的那个人;伴侣不是和你大谈爱情,把“我爱 你”挂在嘴边的那个人,而是和你平淡的唠叨柴米油盐、锅碗瓢盆的那个人。在幸福的婚姻中,伴侣已不是一个具体的人,而是你和ta在几十年的岁月中沉淀下来 的:一份默契、一份温情、一份平淡、一份理解、一份宽容。爱ta就要让ra开心,这就是伴侣........
关于承诺:
在古希腊传说中,情侣都将戒指套在对方的中指上,因为他们相信那儿有一根血管直通心脏。所以戒指的意思就是用心承诺!但是人世间有多少爱能生死白头,又有 多少的情可以天长地久?所以你选择共度一生得未必是你最爱的,你最爱的未必能和你共度一生。多少的有情人走不进彼此的今生,只能苦苦的相约于来世;而多少 的男男女女走过爱情走进婚姻却不会再珍惜彼此的付出。所以记得珍惜你爱的人,把每一个平淡的今天当成是彼此相依的最后一刻,好好握紧爱人的手,即使ta容 颜已老,即使ta满面沧桑,那也是你记忆中永恒的温馨。别忘了守住对ta的承诺,别忘了牵住ta的手,一生一世一辈子.....
关于人生:
人生如梦,岁月无情。蓦然回首,才发现人活着是一种心情。穷也好,富也好,得也好,失也好。一切都是过眼云烟。想想,不管昨天、今天、明天,能豁然开朗就 是美好的一天。不管亲情、友情、爱情,能永远珍惜就是好心情。记得有一个经典短信这样写着:曾经拥有的不要忘记;已经得到的更加珍惜;属于自己的不要放 弃;已经失去的留作回忆;想要得到的一定要努力;累了把心靠岸;选择了就不要后悔;苦了才懂得满足;痛了才享受生活;伤了才明白坚强;总有起风的清晨;总 有绚烂的黄昏;总有流星的夜晚。人生就像一张有去无回的单程车票,没有彩排,每一场都是现场直播。把握好每次演出便是对人生最好的珍惜。把握现在,畅享人 生!
关于友情:
有一天,友情和爱情碰见。爱情问友情:世上有我了,为什么还要有你的存在?友情笑着说:爱情会让人们流泪,而友情的存在就是帮人们擦干眼泪!朋友就是:偶 尔会为你担心、向你关心、替你懆心、想你开心、逗你开心、请你放心。朋友之间,懂得关怀才是难得.....伤心时不妨和我说;痛苦时别忘了跟我讲;有病时 别忘了通知我;困难时记得要请教我;失望时要想起还有我;开心时更不要忘记我。朋友的定义,就在于此.....我们是朋友,这就够了.......
关于微笑:
被人误解的时候能微微的一笑,这是一种素养;受委屈的时候能坦然的一笑,这是一种大度;吃亏的时候能开心的一笑,这是一种豁达;处窘境的时候能自嘲的一 笑,这是一种智慧;无奈的时候能达观的一笑,这是一种境界;危难的时候能泰然一笑,这是一种大气;被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑,这是一种自信;失恋的时候能 轻轻的一笑,这是一种洒脱。不管是有什么事情,为了什么原因.....我们每天都要开心一笑...........
关于生活:
日出东海落西山,愁也一天,喜也一天;遇事不钻牛角尖,人也舒坦,心也舒坦;每天领取谋生钱,多也喜欢,少也喜欢;少荤多素日三餐,粗也香甜,细也香甜;新旧衣服不挑捡,好也御寒,赖也御寒;常与知己聊聊天,古也谈谈,今也谈谈;全家老少互慰勉,贫也相安,富也相安。
关于幸福:
相传幸福是个美丽的玻璃球,跌碎散落在世间的每个角落。有的人捡到多些,有的人捡到少些。却没有人能拥有全部。爱你所爱选你所选,珍惜现在所拥有的一切。人活着就是一种心情,把握今天,设置明天,储存永远。只要用心感受,幸福就会永远存在。
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人总是对自己拥有的东西不珍惜,直到不再拥有时才会加倍怀念,而在得知自己快失去自己所拥有的东西而又无能为力时,就寻死觅活地不肯放手,歇斯底里往往发生在这个时候,而对于生命的执著确实是到死才放手!
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Mian is back
The day started fall for yogurt. |
Monday, July 5, 2010
MY Hada Labo
Hada Labo |
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SHA Moisturising Mist |
Girls should always pamper their skin.
Don forget to sign up and share with ur friends for the sampling before it ends.
Hurry up dear. =)
Sunday, July 4, 2010
I ♥ July
Reasons:
1. Semester break
2. Love is here
3. Friends around me
Watched Toy Story 3 with my loves. And I wanna watch Eclipse pleaseeeee. It's always my love. Edward Jacob Bella.
Edward, Jacob, Bella. |
Woody.BuzzLightyear |
And...Had a wonderful trip at Lundu with Swingang. Sadly not all going but it's still fun for us lah. Overnight at Ocean Resort and you know whattt? We're the visitors loh. It's like we booked the whole place =D Anyway, everything is perfect except no hot shower and lots of mosquito and insects that bite. Shit on you for the mosquitoes and insects that bite my
This is the chalet we stayed. Quite good and spacious lah cox the basic furniture are provided. 2 rooms and kitchen and attached bathroom. Not bad right? |
Thou the air-conditioner is kinda old but still very cooling loh. And it's a queen size bed but enough for 3 skinny girls like us. =D Sadly no television. |
Okay, this guy is very hardcore one. Really no joke. And he's like our daddy. I remember he almost fall asleep when he's driving.... Ahhhhhh...Really -__- |
Girls' flip-flop |
Showing peace. Sincerely me. |
Hello this is my bff. NLS and me |
SN and MY. BFF |
BFF say Yeppie. JuMMp! |
Nahhhhhhhhh. The annoying mosquitoes wtf. |
Drooling Drooling Drooling
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On fire? LOL |
L.O.V.E |
Swingang |
Smile@SharingPlanet |
Monday, June 28, 2010
100 truth =)
Start of my Loooog holiday
Imma back to blog again after 1 week halting for nothing. Final exam ended last Friday which means I’m having a Looong holiday nearly 2 months till end of August. Few days gone and I can actually feel the sienness of this long holiday. So, anyone, intro me a easy but satisfied pay job for me? Heee. Feel so happy for having more than 8 sleeping hours these few days. Just can’t sleep Soo weell during final because that is FINAL EXAM, wondering and doubting whether can pass for all subjects. Regret for not starting earlier revision and I had no satisfy results for the first sem. Just hope to get at least a P for all subjects. For this final, I can really feel the stress that I never came across in my life. I mean, for the past 19 years. I can’t finish the exam paper, I cant make myself not to feel panic, I cant make myself to feel alert and I can’t make myself to remember everything. I hope, I can fix it well for next sem. Felt guilty and helpless though. Don care, must play to the fullest for the coming trip. Hee. Actually, would have to blog for the last trip with family, but laziness approached. I have to take transfer this and that to the laptop, so next post would be the trip but tell you in advance, not very interesting. Anyway, besides having enough sleep, kinda busy of accompanying someone who back from aussie these few days but someone is always so busy helping this and that. Also, very tired because Im the driver. But Imma still have to thanks you for bringing back my fav dark chocolate so kam sia, thank you. My friends, future accountant and doctor also back for holiday. Now left the so called 'Ham-ge' didn't back yet. It's so nice to hang out together chit-chatting, like before, and bring us back to memory of secondary school. Oops, I hadn't met my besties yet. Miss them too. Shall rest and stop. Routinely fog up mirror, most fav enjoying moment, hot shower! And, have a looong nice sleep. Good night.Oyasumi.annyeonghi jumuseyo.Whatever you want.
XOXO,
Mian
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Blahhh Bleh Boo. Hee
Love,
Mian
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Just wanna S___igh.
Friday, May 14, 2010
No time for title Sig___H
Love,
Mian
Saturday, April 17, 2010
And this is what I thought last night. Studying is boring. Wasted the night just for chatting.
Love,
Mian
Friday, March 26, 2010
A new born happy family
At her dad's restaurant. All relatives went there.
Her 18 years old biao jie was there too. =)
Monday, March 15, 2010
Update :D
I've just realized that I've been neglecting my blog for weeks. Sorry for my laziness and blah. You-know.
Promised to update more often[Trying] & complete the incomplete previous post.
Back to topic.
I'm back to school 1 week ago. Time passes when you're unaware.
Degree first year. From 18 to 19.
It's time that we should have a mature thinking instead of childish.
Even lecturers from my uni also said so. Somehow, I doesn't feel that in me.
Still me. Maybe I should make a difference now. Think of my future. Seriously.
Someone said that to me.
Excellent results doesn't ensure you'll have a bright future. Somehow, if you fail, you'll know the consequences.
Everything is in your hand. Succeed or fail? You decide.
Sometimes I doubt the decision I've made-Swinburne University.
Is that the real thing that I want & will it really lead me to a brighter future?
I have no idea. It was dark, I couldn't see where to go, but somehow, I know what I want.
Love,
Mian
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
An Unforgettable experience. =)
Kinda fun actually especially on the last day.
Frankly speaking, I do think promoters are just like a vase. Doing-nothing.
Just do it for fun since they insist to hire promoters.
Stand and smile and ask=Money come in. Why not? =)
He's approachable & very nice person to talk too. =)
Always bring around his Anna Sui mirror & look at it.
p/s: hey. someone, mai jealous ar & say me. ><
Cheap-cheap soup Rm1.50 only.
Boo. Nothing much to say.
Also made friends with our competitors' promoters. =)
*Someone, you don't angry again ar.*
Sometimes, they even helped us.
Oh ya, I worked with my best friend.
Her ta-bo-peng-you was our driver. Lol.
That's all.
Lazy to talk about it. =)
Love,
Mian
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
My Dream. Yawn. =)
That is why I kept saving money.
Weeks ago, I watched Taiwan Programme & the Host is at Hong Kong DisneyLand.
As the newest Disney Land in the world, it is a must-go & must-see because of its special attraction and the inimitable sense of Chinese culture.
OMG. I want to GO.
How adorable.
Mickey is welcoming you to Disney Land!
^^
Overview of Disney Land.
What can I say?
This is just so NICE!!
Awesome.
I want to see it with my naked eyes.
OMG.
I truly madly LOVE this.
You definitely will have a fantastic and magical journey accompanied by Disney Characters.
^^
Free photo-taking with Mickey & Minnie.
I want this happen on me too.
=)
There are many more great photos but I am too tired edy.
I hope to be there in few years time.
I Hope. Pray Hard.
Good Night.
Mian
Monday, February 1, 2010
January 2010
Anyway, I am gonna to summarize what I've done in this month.
Photo stories time. =)
Grade 10 Dance-mates.
Kinda like a farewell party.
That was at Enter-K.
Unfinished foods on table.
XD
Beloved Dance-mates.
Mavis was selected for the National Services thingy.
Samantha was off to Perth to further her studies.
We will miss you.
=)
My baby cousin, Davin.
Attended his full month celebration party.
He is currently the youngest cousin that I have.
See, I am 18 years older than him.
=(
At Lilburn's house.
All the insane are all in the photo.
XD
Part of my cousins.
Sad, I am the eldest.
My Uncles and Aunties.
^^
♥I LOVE THEM♥
Besides, this month was also the end of Summer Sem & start of 1 month++ holiday.
Extremely happy as that I would not have any history classes in my life AGAIN.
Foundation Results are also released.
Kinda satisfy with it as I did not work that hard for that exam.
No complaint. Work harder next time.
^^
I also went Damai Beach after that.
Not going with all of my Besties as our holidays never coincide.
But, going with someone and Best friend.
Vividly remembered there was a dog at the beach.
Wtf. Scared tiok me.
==
Me.
At Damai Beach.
I found a cutie bear.
^^
Next destination, KL.
I hope.